

She won't be thinking logically like 'is this guy good for me?' or 'where is this going?' when she's having fun with someone. If you're a fun guy, you're a winner for sure. Just Have FUNįun is the key ingredient to a good vibe between anyone. Anyway, she replied with a laugh saying she usually loves to keep them on when she's doing it to see better, but she usually takes them off since she's scared they'll get knocked off her face! 3. So be wary of your tone when you're talking to her. It also depends on the tonality of whatever you're saying. She humoured me of course because she found the boldness rather endearing and not too arrogant. I was being a bit forward and 'bold' and I asked her if she leaves her glasses on during sex, because I was eternally curious about women in general wearing specs and whether or not they wore them while having sex (see, ask the right questions!).

Just be playful with your words and if she finds it funny, she will definitely flirt back with you.įor instance, this one time I was at a bar with a woman who wore spectacles. Of course, don't go overboard with your boldness and don't start becoming arrogant. If you create a sense of curiosity about her through the right questions, then you will never run out of interesting things to talk about, especially when she's the focus of the conversation, hence creating an amiable vibe.īe impudent, a little cheeky and slightly irreverent when you're talking to her. These are all the right questions to be curious about. I mean, you can wonder how the hell is she so cute but apart from that, delve a little deeper and try and be more curious about things like 'how will she react if I flirt with her?' or 'what is funny to her?', 'what things are important to her?' or even 'what turns her on?'. To create a successful vibe with her, you need to be curious about her, beyond her looks. It takes a lot of guts to go up to a woman and start talking to her, and for men who have trouble doing that, here are the 3 most basic things to keep in mind, to create a vivacious and a steady vibe, around her. It took me a while to figure out the 3 most basic and important ingredients that keep a healthy vibe alive while talking to a woman, and now, I swear by these three things, because they seem to work for me, every time. Sometimes, it feels like men, who do it so easily, have some sort of a secret method they invest in, to get attention from the women they like, and I kept trying to find out what the secret really was.
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You know what I mean? While some guys will make her laugh and have her eating out of their hands, others like me shy away and get confused as to how to make her comfortable and start a good conversation. While this may come naturally to some guys, for me, it took a bit of an effort to create that vibe around women in general. I mean, the key to making that vibe more incessant, is to just make her laugh by creating a fun atmosphere. Creating a vibe with someone you like is the first step you need to take to pique their interest in you.
